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Mizzjuicyflava
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A few things I learned about life so far.

Posted by Mizzjuicyflava - August 27th, 2011


1. Everyone is not going to like you

2. If its out of your control and there is nothing you can do about it, let it go.

3. Treat people the way you want to be treated.

4. You can not save everybody.

5. Be yourself, or be by yourself.

6. Love is a powerful weapon.

7. Be careful what you say and do, People are watching.

8. People will gossip about you. Regardless.

9. Lies beget lies.

10. Never make decisions when you are angry.

11. Family can hurt you more than your enemies.

12. No one is perfect.

13. If you don't give a damn, then no one else will give a fuck.

14. You only fail if you give up completely.

15. Embrace your abnormalities.

16. Never assume anything. Go with your gut instinct.

17. Do what is right for yourself.

18. Worrying makes problems more worse.

19. when you try to fix things you often end up making it worse. -Bryan

20. Some people will like things you don't like. Some people will not like things you like. There's nothing you can do about it but Deal with it. - Chdonga

21. True friends are hard to come by.

22. You must first take care of yourself, before you try to take care of someone else.

23. Whatever you put into it, is what you get out of it. (Anything in general)

24.The truth hurts, but not for long.

25.Mind your business! If it has nothing to do with you stay out of it!

26. It is absolutely OK to say no.

27. Sometimes silence is the best answer.

28. If you do good, forget. If you do bad, think about it. - SFaPiL2

29. Better to receive a rough truth than a suave lie. (rough truths make you go the right direction... suave lies let you stay in the wrong one) - SFaPiL2

30. Keep away from the people who don't tell you that you've made a mistake when you did. (They don't really care about you) - SFaPiL2

31.Narcissy kicks ass. ( Can't No mothafucka do it like Narcissy) - Narcissy

32.If you are masturbating make sure the door is locked. ( Make sure to take the proper precautions before having pleasurable privacy.) - HayBayBee

33. Life is full of contradictions.

34.You Damned if you do and you are damned if you don't.

35. at the end of the day people may judge you, but only you know you're past, what you've done and where you want to go in life. You have to love yourself first and foremost. - HayBayBee

36. Your reputation is valuable.

37. Change is scary.

What have you learned?

NOTE:
I will be putting some user comments on this list.

A few things I learned about life so far.


Comments

Don't 5 and 7 contradict each other?

ahhh. I could see how they would contradict one another. That was not my intention. My plan was to explain each one , but i was too lazy.

#5. dont be something your are not. Don't be fake to make people like you or to be known. You will be found out eventually and people will disregard you.

#7. Have some tact about yourself and self respect around others. Also have respect for other people. What you say or do (negative or positive) may have an impact on a person. And from that experience they will get the wrong Idea about you.

Some people will like things you don't like. Some people will not like things you like. There's nothing you can do about it but Deal with it.

AAAAAMMMMEN! You betta preach it Rev Chdonga!!!

I wholeheartedly agree with your list.

Thanks. Its just from my experiences. As I get older, the list will get longer.

this is true

yep. it is.

These are all great. Im gonna bookmark this particular post. I think number 4 is the hardest one for me.

Thanks!

#4 is hard for me too. I had to learn the hard way with that one.

I've learned to have faith in humanity on a micro level. Are humans in large groups usually good? Naw.. war, politics, hierarchy nonsense.

But most of the people I meet in my day-to-day are good people. I don't always know spiritually what's happening in my life, but I can always believe in humans, if that makes sense.

Also, God ftw :D

lol! YAY! GOD!!

I know what you mean. You have so much hope for a person, and they often let you down. Its hard to trust people like that too.

Your list is very true. 25 is a tough one for me, because if I see someone ruining his/her life or in a complicated situation I have the urge to help them out sometimes. 26 is hard because of what I said about 25.

I could add three more to your list:
- If you do good, forget. If you do bad, think about it.

- Better to receive a rough truth than a suave lie. (rough truths make you go the right direction... suave lies let you stay in the wrong one)

- Keep away from the people who don't tell you that you've made a mistake when you did. (They don't really care about you)

my 2 cents.

P.S. Thanks for sharing. Take care.

I like your last rule, it is so true. And I love the second one. I firmly believe in that.Thank you for your 2 cents. I'm going to add them to my list. I might make a thread a bout this.

so whats up?

I'm all good. How you be?

31. Narcissy kicks ass.

Yes. Yes he does!

Oh hey, an actually meaningful news-post! You don't find those all too often here, it seems.

Well, I commend the both the effort and truth that were put into this list, and will take some of these lessons to heart.. :33

Lol. I thought I would take break from the crazy, and blog about real stuff. Thanks for the kind words. Please do take it to heart, sooner or later, you will come across one of these situations.

^ What River said - save for Rule 16, as my gut is always, always wrong.

Well, sometimes it depends on the situation. I have went with my gut instinct and fucked up. I just had to learn from that. Its kinda like you dammed if you do, damned if you don't. I think I'll make that rule number 34

this wont relate to ur news post but your profile pic..screams funky and..i fuckin love ya like a sister from another motha

LOL! Thank you! That was what I was going for. I have made love for you too! Much Love!

I'ma draw u, gir'friend.

Well you drew me then. Make sure my fro is huge. I mean HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!

31.Narcissy kicks ass. ( Love yourself and encourage yourself) - Narcissy

Eh ... I guess that interpretation will work.

Well you say that you kick ass. I guess that is self motivation. Ill change it.

Better. <3

<3 <3